So after having spent several weeks being somewhat pissed at mom, I finally went to visit her last night and gave her my spiel. I’m not gonna go into details here because it really is a private matter, but needless to say, I said what I needed to say.
Truth is, I waited a few weeks until I calmed down and had a rational head about it because I knew if I said anything beforehand that it would have ended badly. Thankfully, I had enough common sense to wait it out, and had my talk yesterday.
As expected, mom had no idea what had happened but after all was said and done, she saw why I was so upset, apologized, and hopefully things will get better. It’s hard to say if it actually will as people tend to stick to their habits but only time will tell. At least now any tension that was there for me is now gone and the uneasiness of having to have “the talk” is over. Now I can resume my normal abnormal family life 🙂